tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post9020218653230736070..comments2023-06-19T14:48:22.009+05:30Comments on A mother vents, raves and rants: Why can husbands never care for sick wives, while wives do it so well?Forever motherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10053267141364034596noreply@blogger.comBlogger65125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-63597754398403818072015-01-28T11:47:25.157+05:302015-01-28T11:47:25.157+05:30May god heal you completely.May god heal you completely.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-40869478280004925152015-01-28T11:45:29.043+05:302015-01-28T11:45:29.043+05:30Dear friend hope you are better.i can identify wit...Dear friend hope you are better.i can identify with you. Your sharing is a solace because i know i am notalone in my misery.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-49136799354832916332015-01-09T06:52:37.816+05:302015-01-09T06:52:37.816+05:30Oh my gosh, I am glad you made this site, I really...Oh my gosh, I am glad you made this site, I really need to vent about this one too! <br /><br />I tore a tendon in my leg a week ago. My husband took one day off to take care of me, and did an alright job. Apparently he thought that one day would fulfill his duties, because the rest of the week he: volunteered to work more hours because one of his co-workers got the flu (as if a co-worker is moreAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-23069355698410841332014-12-21T10:28:08.705+05:302014-12-21T10:28:08.705+05:30I'm relieved to see I'm not the only one w...I'm relieved to see I'm not the only one with a unloving husband, I have been sick for the last three days and he hasn't as much as offered me a drink, he has went about with his bottom lip quivering this is because I haven't made anything for him to eat, at one time I would have got out my sick bed and made dinner but now I couldn't care less if he eats or not. I married a Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-78967728717505687932014-10-04T10:43:33.254+05:302014-10-04T10:43:33.254+05:30I think good men are hard to find. There are very ...I think good men are hard to find. There are very few of them around who will take care of their sick wives.<br /><br />And I think women just make themselves feel guilty when they don't care for their husbands when they are sick.<br /><br />Well I'm sick of it. So now when my BF is sick I ignore him and tell him to suck it up. Because that's what he tells me. Sounds childish but I Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-10317555647407782472014-10-01T16:05:49.967+05:302014-10-01T16:05:49.967+05:30I'm so glad that these women have shared their...I'm so glad that these women have shared their stories of spousal neglect and cruelty they experienced while they were ill. I've just gone through the same thing. I have begun to pull back on all care I give him, and do everything in my power to strengthen myself until the day that I can leave. I have found that being with a man is a rip-off. Women are so much better off alone as long Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-18366711618384145802014-08-25T08:56:24.247+05:302014-08-25T08:56:24.247+05:30I have been married to my husband for 5 years. Whe...I have been married to my husband for 5 years. When we were dating he would get me anything I asked for as long as he didn't have to be around me. Now he wont get anything I ask for. Overslept when he was supposed to drive me to the dr and went shopping all day. Then has the decency to throw me out of our bed because im sick and im coughing too much. I told him I was hungry. I got you know Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-77729105191940445562014-08-25T06:41:27.943+05:302014-08-25T06:41:27.943+05:30Why can husbands never care for sick wives, while ...Why can husbands never care for sick wives, while wives do it so well? <br />ANSWER:<br />1. You married the wrong guy?<br />2. Some wives couldn't care for anyone. I was a married single parent. Got a new wife, a real woman, equally caring.<br /><br />What's the point of being anon?<br />Rich Berg, MAAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-55568537528947970912014-08-23T07:22:33.519+05:302014-08-23T07:22:33.519+05:30Well my partner made excuses so he could leave hos...Well my partner made excuses so he could leave hospital just after I'd had a d&c and was having a transfusion. He asked if he could go to McDonald's I said no you can get a sandwich so he insisted our son was being naughty and he had to go home. When I questioned him afterward he yelled at me saying I was a really bad patient &he will leave me when im betterAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-23203607863478537702014-07-26T15:12:31.550+05:302014-07-26T15:12:31.550+05:30Reading this just makes me more sad and angry. I h...Reading this just makes me more sad and angry. I have a kidney infection and a lot of pain. Husband went out with friends hasn't called to check on me once in eleven hours Isn't answering his phone and it's way later than he ever stays outAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-8728688413852440792014-06-10T11:36:36.098+05:302014-06-10T11:36:36.098+05:30I am not the type to seek sympathy when I'm si...I am not the type to seek sympathy when I'm sick. I usually keep it to myself unless it's pretty bad. So I have an awful flu right now: headache, aches all over, chills, fever for the pass couple of days, sore throat, stuffy nose....and feeling awful in general. The guy who is trying to get me to date him wanted to see me and despite telling him I'm sick and need rest, he kept Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-13214996001807437982014-05-29T17:57:19.475+05:302014-05-29T17:57:19.475+05:30I was sick for two days now and husband doesn'...I was sick for two days now and husband doesn't even care for me. He just didn't want to be late for work. So much more if he'll be taking a leave of absence so he can bring me to the doctor. I had no choice but to drive myself to the clinic and have myself checked. Though I'm feeling dizziness and severe headache i had no choice but to help myself. Why is he being so Edgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17579580537656845999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-78561705152602008452014-05-29T17:51:30.767+05:302014-05-29T17:51:30.767+05:30I was also sick for two days now and husband doesn...I was also sick for two days now and husband doesn't even care, he cares more of not being late to work than takes care of me or even bring me to the doctor. I drove myself to the doctor even if I still feel dizziness and headache coz I had no choice but to help myself. He didn't even said he's sorry, he just explained to me that he doesn't want to be late to work. Worst to be Edgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17579580537656845999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-49926434649250671762014-05-20T08:47:59.113+05:302014-05-20T08:47:59.113+05:30Mine told me today he couldn't change a diaper...Mine told me today he couldn't change a diaper because he worked. I said I'm sorry but I'm sick.....When I had a very painful miscarriage he complained I was being lazy. When he is sick or even just really tired I am supposed to wait on him. As soon as I can afford to I am leaving.anonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00929843133932039888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-22454274689873587842014-03-30T02:03:54.598+05:302014-03-30T02:03:54.598+05:30I guess that's it, they are mostly selfish **i...I guess that's it, they are mostly selfish **icks. I just had surgery this year on my back in January. I have been slowly recovering. I was starting to feel better and took a fall down a flight of stairs a couple days ago and hurt my knee. I can barely walk. So, today, I have my leg propped up, and he offers me some lunch he cooked. I accept. He says the food is spicy, and then I said, &Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-24891083053484490642014-03-08T02:45:14.794+05:302014-03-08T02:45:14.794+05:30I've been married 25 years and it's the sa...I've been married 25 years and it's the same story for me. As soon as they are sick the whole world caves in around them....when I am sick I totally take care of myself, the house, dinner..... It really annoys me... He says so that's it your sick for the whole day??? We'll let me see maybe I can convince my body to jump up just for you!!!!! Ladies let's teach our sons to be Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-15835351712314628222014-02-13T07:41:25.526+05:302014-02-13T07:41:25.526+05:30:( I'm being that husband right now. She was s...:( I'm being that husband right now. She was sick with fever and sore throat last night. I came home ask her if she took the med. she said yes. I went on my way. I woke up early today made the soup. After this it went down hill. I don't know what happen to me. I felt like my brain just shut off. She asked me to go and buy med. I would procrastinate for about 4 hr before I went. She felt Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-11164456264503154022014-02-03T12:06:50.863+05:302014-02-03T12:06:50.863+05:30Tonight upon reading all your comments and experie...Tonight upon reading all your comments and experiences made me think that at least I'm not alone having this problem. I'm a foreigner married for the 2nd time to this recent husband now. We're married for 7 years. Since the first year of our marriage and until now, no changes. He doesn't care or has no passion when I'm sick. He said " do you want me to baby you? But when Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-24550192413985966102013-12-01T21:21:23.235+05:302013-12-01T21:21:23.235+05:30Obviously, I have the same husband. I've been ...Obviously, I have the same husband. I've been married for 28 years and got real sick while we were dating with a bad cold. He took such great care of me, part of why I fell in love with him. Since then, different story. He gets mean and "I told you to get a flu shot" or "how long do you plan on missing work?" I cook my own soup, and on and on. This time I came back from Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-65596455380370550862013-11-28T22:33:50.764+05:302013-11-28T22:33:50.764+05:30Iam sorry for all of you ... Iam actually in the s...Iam sorry for all of you ... Iam actually in the same case but with my boyfriend not my husband and Iam not in my country ...I moved to London to study because I met him here and fall in love with each other ... I am having a terrible sore throat with a very bad fever that started yesterday morning ... I was terribly ill and told him before he leaves to work ... I didn't expect him to stay Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-34685555822237269072013-11-26T23:06:46.871+05:302013-11-26T23:06:46.871+05:30I know this is a year old but feel like I could...I know this is a year old but feel like I could've written this myself..if not for my son I'd have committed suicidepunk_luv6https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874907284104722158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-42859592571451560252013-11-26T23:05:02.281+05:302013-11-26T23:05:02.281+05:30You have no clue how much I relate to you...I'...You have no clue how much I relate to you...I'm in tears because of his much I can relate as if I wrote this myself. ..punk_luv6https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874907284104722158noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-85867473237813821352013-11-05T17:37:11.348+05:302013-11-05T17:37:11.348+05:30This is my first ever internet post. I have gone t...This is my first ever internet post. I have gone through the same sentiments in last three days. I am down with a flu and I was uncared, not fed properly and rejected. I am a very good wife to him and I have always cared for him when he needs me the most. But, I do not see him reciprocating in the same manner. It is very hurtful and I can't stop crying while writing. Why has god made these Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-75550320332504480962013-11-03T00:24:53.351+05:302013-11-03T00:24:53.351+05:30Ladies,ladies, ladies. I've been feeling like ...Ladies,ladies, ladies. I've been feeling like crap for a week now. This flu is killing me. I am a great cook, but my head and back are killing me. Husbands idea of cooking? Lil Ceasars, taco bell. I'm laying on the coach to weak to put a towel on my head. I made breakfast for the family this morning, he through his plate in the sink. I treat him like a king. I've even been spraying Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8812832649722160125.post-36103123053292466862013-10-20T19:55:18.553+05:302013-10-20T19:55:18.553+05:30Helps to know I'm not alone.....
Broke my leg....Helps to know I'm not alone.....<br />Broke my leg....concussion....hurt neck and back<br />Bed ridden except for wheelchair .<br />Husband has spent most of 4 weeks yelling and screaming every time I need anything.... Including a restroom trip.<br />Leaves me everyday .....golfing.... Etc.....<br />Does work for a co that up advocates family leave but wants no part. Thank God I spotted my Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com